Dear Miss MacDonald,

I was fascinated to find your site, following recent events which I have outlined below.

I have now been with my girlfriend for 18 months. We have a conventional relationship most of the time, though she does have a fearsome temper and a will of iron which, frankly, scare me, and leave me under her thumb.

A couple of months ago, we went to visit her parents for the weekend - they too are nice people, but her mother tends to dominate and will not permit us to sleep in the same room. On this occasion we went to bed late after sharing some wine, and I woke to find, to my horror that I had wet the bed - something I haven't done since my early childhood. I went and told my girlfriend, who was furious and went straight to her mother. They returned to my room, made me strip the bed and remove my pyjamas. Nothing more was said.

On our following visit, my girlfriend insisted we were to go to bed early and I soon discovered why: On going up to change, she produced a packet of pink nappies, and insisted that I wear one - the more I protested, the angrier she became, and It was made clear that if I did not obey I would be spanked in front of her mother. Much to her mother's amusement, I had to go down and kiss her goodnight wearing only a nappy and a girls’ pyjama top. I was also told from now on to refer to her parents as Mummy and Daddy, and that I would be expected to respond to the name 'Baby'.

The following day we went shopping, me with a clean nappy on under my normal trousers, with my girlfriend frequently referring to ‘Baby’s’ nappies, and me expected to only call this humiliating undergarment 'my' nappy. When we returned I was also the owner of some pairs of white ribbed tights, and a short flounced baby-doll nightie.

At 7.30, I must go upstairs to change, and then come down for a warm drink, then I have to kiss Mummy, and my girlfriend goodnight, to be in bed by 8.00. All I have to read are old 'Jackie and 'Bunty' comics.

The clothes all 'live' at her parents’ house, and the  routine has not changed for our last three visits and, other than wearing my nappies in the daytime, I have not been subjected to embarrassment outside their home. I feel that her father would like to support me but is afraid to do so; I am under no doubt that if I complain I will be severely spanked by my new ‘Mummy’ and my girlfriend.

So far we don't mention this at home, but visits to her parents are becoming increasingly regular, and there has been talk of petticoats and dummies. I confess to a strange enjoyment of this treatment, but fear where it could go.

Mark
(London)

It sounds to me that it is going straight to the nursery, and that is where you belong. You sound like a very stubborn fellow, and I am not surprised that your girlfriend loses her temper with you. Obviously she and her mother know exactly how to handle the situation though. I think that you will find that you are a much more pleasant and considerate companion.
Susan

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