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Panties are the definitive capstone of  the pettification process.  Though they may not be the first item introduced (aprons and pinafores may well precede them), they are inevitably the keys to the prison the intended soon finds himself locked into. There are two keys to that prison: shame and excitement, and these should always be kept in mind by the woman shepherding her husband or significant other into the gentle folds of pettification.  That wearing women’s clothing, and especially their undergarments, is
forbidden and shameful for a man is drilled into him by family, peers, and society almost from birth.  Like most things that are forbidden, there is a great deal of excitement associated with breaking that taboo. Prohibition in the United States is a good example.  People were having a fine time breaking the law until it was repealed, and then the excitement was lost with legitimisation.  The same holds true for your man, though he may protest otherwise.  Therefore, your goal for him is actually aided by his resistance and, like water on rock, your efforts will gently and gradually wear him away to putty in your hands.

Remember that by wearing lacy panties a man is both denying his masculinity  and authority, as well as adopting the attire and subservient role of an 'inferior' being.  This is why (as many wives and mothers have noted) any man or boy becomes utterly submissive and compliant once you have him in his panties.  The next and biggest question for most women is, 'Fine, but how do I get him there?'

Begin in either the kitchen or the bedroom, or preferably in both places.  When you think of  it, both are sources of sustenance for him in one form or another, as was his mother’s breast.  So, begin in those places where he has some form of dependency and
proceed from there. In the kitchen, gently cajole him into helping out and suggest that he wear an apron.  If he refuses, an accident is bound to happen sooner or later, and most likely to him.  The next time he helps out he should be a little more amenable to the idea.  If not, insist on it for his own sake and the sake of his clothes, and tie one on him if necessary.  Once you have him used
to his apron, introduce him to his pinafore.  The presence of both a pinafore (a tie-on pinny so that it’ll fit both of you) and an apron at the outset is important.  That way you’ll wear the pinafore initially, but as he becomes used to his apron there will come that day when you’re wearing the apron and only the pinafore is available. If he insists on wearing it half down like an apron, then let him at first, but find fault with stains to the top half when he’s done, and insist that he wear it fully the second.

Gently wear away his resistance, not with anger but with gentle cajolery: 'Come on, now...aren’t you a little big for attitudes like that?  I thought you were a modern man'.  Though if he knew your definition of a modern man he might have more than just second thoughts.  As you can see, the process can be quite a bit of fun with him not knowing quite where you are leading him.  Let him convince you of his open-mindedness as you gently shepherd him toward his fate.

Lingerie shopping is another area where shame and excitement are also very much in effect.  Remember to bring him along with gentle cajolery, breaking down his resistance gradually.  Ask him for his opinions, and listen carefully to his response, as you may well find out something as to his desires and what stimulates him.  Put a garment in his hand as you ask his opinion as to its texture, color, design, etc.  Draw him gently along the way you wish to lead him.

In the bedroom, introduce panties into your bedroom adventures.  Tell him a friend suggested something to you that you’d like to try out.  Tell him it’s a surprise and ask him to cooperate by lying on his back nude with his arms at his side and his eyes closed and
not to open his eyes until you say so.  Take either a pair of frilly satin or silk panties you have worn (he will find the pheromones extremely stimulating) or a clean pair, and holding them by the waistband draw them slowly up his body from his feet to his head.  Allow the panties (briefs are best, and you might want to purchase a pair or two in his size) to contact his legs, hips, torso and head. Do this until you are satisfied that he is thoroughly aroused and proceed from there.  Repeat this process several times a week and then insist on it every time. If you meet resistance from him, then you have a few feminine tricks you can try: tears, complaints of his lack of understanding, and withholding your favors should bring him about smartly in short order.

After a bit, tell him you think he might  find it arousing to try them on, and ask him to do it as a favor to you. Caress him while he is in them and proceed from there. Make this a frequent, then permanent, part of your bedroom activities.  Move from this to wearing them under his clothes while at home, then out in public. Get a picture or two of him and put them aside someplace safe.  These will become your insurance that he is firmly under your thumb, and that there’ll be no backsliding.  Keeping the elements of shame and excitement alive by moving him gently and gradually into skirts, dresses, petticoats, little girl clothes, etc.  This will keep him involved, submissive and – believe it or not – satisfied, and willing to do anything you desire and become the attentive and cooperative man you want.

Remember that patience, persistence, gentleness and the use of shame and excitement as keys to the process, and will put you in the winner’s circle for the rest of your life; and bring you ascendancy, satisfaction, and bring your partner’s full attentiveness and submissive cooperation.   Best of all, he may not admit it, but he will be utterly grateful to you regardless of outward appearances.

Lastly, a word about babification.  Unless you are absolutely sure your man has an active interest in this area, it is best to wait until full pettification has been in place  for some time before beginning to implement this element.  Most women would ask, ' Why
bother?' or ' Who needs it?'  The answers are: because it seals your control permanently in place, and beyond any challenge or doubt, and because it serves you both better than either of you now realise.  There is no greater humiliation for anyone than being put into diapers and baby pants and treated as a baby.  For a man this brings shame to the level of ultimate humiliation, and excitement to its absolute peak. Symbolically the act gives over to you the last pieces of control he has over his life – his control over his bodily functions and his ability to feed himself.

Like his humiliation, his submission is now complete and total.  It also brings his life into balance. Instead of being the one always in control and the 'authority on everything', his life now has a balance which removes much of the stress from his existence.  Most men don’t realise how much peace and serenity there is to be found in diapers and baby pants until they’ve been there.  Trust me, he’ll thank you for it after a while.  For you, as for so many women, since 'Baby' has to wear diapers to bed, he soon finds he has to use other means of satisfying his wife – and for a fact, your satisfaction must now come before his in one of the areas which matters most in all relationships.  Believe me, once you have your 'baby' where you want him, you will wonder why it took you so long to begin his transformation, and why you thought it would be so difficult in the beginning.

Pettification and babification can and will transform both your and your husband's  personal and love life and can, if used properly, reignite the flames of a supposedly 'dead' or dying  relationship.

Susan, if you feel that the publication of this article may be of use, please feel free to do so.
Sincerely,
 
Baby Janet

I certainly do think it will be of use. It is an extremely good guide to how to trap your hubby into permanent petticoating, and I do agree that dummy discipline is probably the ultimate form of petticoat discipline, and does mean that in bed, dressed in a nappy, plastic baby pants and one of those cuddly bunny sleepers from PajamasRus, your hubby will have to attend to your pleasure, and not be as selfish and thoughless as perhaps he has been in showing affection in the past. From now on, your pleasure will come first.

Taking your husband or son lingerie shopping is very good training, as he will be quite unnerved  and humiliated in the ladies' and girls' undies department - all those snowy white or soft pastel clouds of  fleece and satin, and frills and lace, will have him blushing furiously and counting the seconds until you decide to leave. It is times like this that the overwhelming power of petticoat punishment should be obvious to any woman.

Thank you Baby Janet for your excellent suggestions, and may I refer readers to 'Saffy's Corner', where Baby Janet has written a nostalgic piece about Burmashave roadside advertisements.
Susan