My interest in this arises
not only from the fact that I share the same views as most of your women
readers on the proper place
of males in society, but
also since I am a professional corsetiere with 37 years of experience in
the trade, and during this time
have supplied corsets for
many male clients. Because of my particular interest in the use of corsets
as a means of training,
corsets for men, and for
children - just as much as girls - have become something of a speciality
of mine. I therefore thought
your readers night he interested
to hear of my experience in this field, with particular reference to the
corseting of boys, which
I regard as an essential
feature of their proper upbringing and training.
I am now over 50, so was
brought up in the days when corsets were a normal part of every woman's
dress, and girls were
generally made to start
wearing them at the age of 12 or 13, usually coinciding with their having
to start wearing stockings, and
therefore suspenders, as
a compulsory part of their school uniform. In those days, corsets for boys
were not unknown either,
many mothers believing that
all children, boys just as much as girls, needed the support of corsets
as their figures started to
develop.
I discovered this when I
started work as an apprentice in a corsetiere's shop. I also discovered
to my surprise that the clientele
comprised of grown men too.
During the war, of course, there were few young men about, so our adult
male customers
consisted mainly of men
over 40, a few of whom ventured into the shop themselves, but more usually
had corsets bought for
them by their wives, or
else women brought their husbands in to he fitted, in which case they were
always attended to by
Madame herself. With boys
it was different, and we girls were allowed to attend to them. They were
invariably brought in by
their mothers, and I remember
being very amused seeing them being measured, fitted, laced-up, and generally
being treated just
like girls to their obvious
embarrassment and confusion. Often they were dressed somewhat girlishly
particularly as far as their
underwear was concerned,
and occasionally one would he brought in actually dressed as a girl, and
when this happened we
had strict instructions
not to comment on this, but to treat him exactly as we would any other
girl, even to the extent of calling
him 'Miss' and remarking
on his pretty dress and figure.
Gradually, I came to realise
that many men who wore corsets were obliged to do so by their wives as
a token of the submissive
role allocated to them.
I found myself fascinated by this idea, and indeed when some years later
I started business as a
corsetiere myself, many
women wanting corsets for their husbands spoke quite freely to me of this
purpose, and sought my
advice on the most suitable
style, materials, boning and general severity of the corsets which were
needed to provide suitable
discipline for them.
Over the years, of course,
the styles of corsetry have undergone enormous changes as fashions, modern
materials, and social
customs have had their effect.
In my view, modern style garments do very little for the female figure,
and still less for the figure or
discipline of a male. Their
light weight and virtual absence of boning make them generally unsuitable
for all except the lightest of
figures, and I do not therefore
normally advise them for men. For young girls and children, including boys,
they can serve as a
first introduction to being
corseted, particularly since they are, in general, pretty and feminine,
in preparation for firmer corseting
later.
There is, however, still
a demand for the traditional firm corset made of batiste, collar cloth
or heavy satin nylon, with strong
boning and busk fastenings,
and whilst these days this is the type worn mostly by older women, they
are, in my view, the only
type suitable for men. They
may he laced or not according to preference, though in general I find women
prefer laced ones for a
man, so they can regulate
the discipline.
With adult males tight lacing
of course imposes greater discipline, and certainly helps to ensure the
wearer feels well confined
and submissive. In terms
of actual TRAINING it cannot do a great deal however, as with an adult
his figure is too firmly set.
Tight lacing will certainly
give him a small waist which some women, including myself, find attractive,
but, to maintain this in a
grown male, corsets must
always he worn.
With a boy, however, provided
he is put into corsets young enough, regular tight lacing will actually
TRAIN his figure as it
develops so it remains attractive
afterwards, in just the same way that a girl whose figure has been trained
in corsets while she is
young will probably have
a good figure all her life. This is just as true now as it was in my own
time, and I attribute my own
good figure now, at 52,
to the fact that I was corseted tightly by my mother at the age of 13,
and that throughout my teens I had
regular and strict corset
training.
Working as a young girl for
a corsetiere of course gave me little choice in this. On arrival at the
shop each morning I was
immediately put into what
Madame called 'working corsets'. These were medium length, heavily boned
corsets coming just
above my waist and these
were laced tightly, though not excessively so, to make sure my figure was
attractively shaped. This,
naturally enough, Madame
considered important for a girl working in a corsetiere's shop or workroom.
In addition to this, for
an hour each evening before
going home, she made me wear, instead of my 'working corsets', what we
called a 'Demoiselle'
corset. This was much more
severe, and was in fact a Victorian style corset designed for strict figure
training, and for the hour
my waist was laced in to
17 inches. Madame said this was not only good training for my figure, it
was also intended to give me
experience of what really
tight lacing felt like, as if I were to become a corsetiere myself one
day, it was important to have had
the experience.
In fact, although like most
girls (and boys) I disliked the feeling of tight lacing at the time, I
gradually became accustomed to it
and later came to appreciate
its value. As a result I now have no hesitation in recommending firm corsets,
and lacing, for
children when my opinion
is sought.
Corset Training
At present I am supplying corsets for eight children, of which five are girls, and three are boys, whose mothers have decided on corsets for them for discipline or figure training reasons. Two of them, one boy and one girl, although they wear different clothes at school and in public, at home, their mother has always dressed them identically either as girls or as boys, and the children like this. Both now have laced corsets so their mother can train their figures the same way, so they can continue to wear the same clothes for as long as possible. Their mother likes them this way and maintains that while they are still children they should he treated, as much as possible, alike.
Indeed I make very little
distinction between boys and girls when corseting them. Before the age
of about 13 their figures are
similar, and in addition,
at this age being corseted makes a boy feel somewhat girlish, and I believe
this is important in training
him to be well behaved,
submissive and obedient.
There is no doubt corsets
have this effect on a boy. Many boys, and indeed many girls too, that are
brought to me to be
corseted are somewhat rebellious
and difficult at first. Once they are in corsets however, this resistance
seems to fade and they
become demure and much more
amenable to their mother's wishes. This applies even in the case of a male,
by treating him as
one would a girl, and by
making him wear, say, a pretty pantie girdle and perhaps a girl's slip
or knickers under his ordinary
clothes. The girlish feel
of these starts to teach him that defiant masculine ways are not acceptable.
Normally, I recommend a good
elastic pantie girdle for both boys and girls. This introduces them to
the feel of having their
figures under some, albeit
at that stage, quite gentle control. and serves to accustom a boy to the
idea that corsets are to
become a regular part of
his dress. A girl's pantie girdle, despite it being tight at the front
and between the legs, is in fact
perfectly suitable for a
boy provided he has his penis positioned upwards pressed back against his
tummy, where of course it is
held secure by the tightness
of the girdle itself, or by a special strap attached for the purpose. Many
feel this is desirable anyway
for a male, and some are
made to wear a pantie girdle for this purpose alone.
It is best if the girdle
is worn all day, though for a male this is sometimes difficult to insist
on. I usually recommend it is worn at
night too so he becomes
accustomed to the feel of it for as many hours as possible each day.
A stricter corset can then
be introduced, later on. This should he a firm, non-elastic, corset although
it can have elastic panels
just at the two sides for
comfort, but the essentials are that it is well boned and that it fits
tightly at the waist and hips. For
preference it has suspenders
too, even for a male as these attached to stockings help to keep the corset
neat round the bottom
edge and prevent it rucking.
Properly fastened suspenders also act as an additional discipline as they
impose a certain
restriction when sitting
or stooping, and this enhances the overall 'corseted' feeling a male needs
to have and get accustomed to.
I normally provide four
suspenders for each leg on the corsets I supply, to ensure they have this
discipline round their thighs. At
night he can he made to
wear a pantie girdle which could be tighter than before and preferably
boned.
The corsets should be on
the lines of the 'Demoiselle' corset I had to wear as a girl, the essentials
being that they are long,
coming well above the waist
at the top and well down the thighs below and that they are heavily boned
to provide the proper
discipline. Back lacing
is always best, and enables the corset to have a strong front busk fastening,
and again I recommend eight
suspenders.
Gentle Lacing
Lacing can he gentle at first
while the child gets accustomed to the greater discipline of the corset,
but it is surprising how quickly
a male adapts to tight lacing
when this is introduced. Of the five girls I mentioned that are among my
present clientele, three have been laced
for only 3 to 7 months and all now have delightfully tiny waists, and the
young one is made to sleep in her corsets with her waist
laced in to 17 inches.
Of the males, one is corseted
this tightly too, and his wife is delighted with his progress and tiny
girlish waist which she shows
off by making him wear girl's
dresses with tight fitting bodices, a shaped school girl gym tunic, or
little skirts with elastic waist
bands and a tight leather
belt. He is totally submissive to this discipline and accepts it as a normal
thing now. The boy and girl
twins I mentioned earlier
are now just starting to he laced and the male seems to have accepted being
corseted the same as his
sister, perfectly happily
and, his mother tells me, even tries with his sister as to who has the
smaller waist after they have both
been laced up.
The other two are both younger
and are still in pantie girdles, the male incidentally being made to wear
girls' clothes at home as
part of his training to
grow up a submissive male. He has three older sisters who are being trained
in the opposite role. They are not
corseted therefore and are
encouraged to treat their brother with proper female superiority, because
he is a boy and yet he is
dressed as a girl.
Let me, in conclusion, just
say that in my experience corsets can play a decisive role in the proper
training of males to be nicely
subdued and demure, and
remain submissive and respectful to members of the female sex. In addition,
a boy's figure can he
trained in corsets like
a girl's to give him a tiny waist and nicely shaped figure which many women
find attractive in a man. For
men, the enforced wearing
of corsets emphasises their subservient role and helps to make them feel
properly submissive to
women, though for this their
corsets must be strict and a discipline to wear.
I hope these comments will he of interest to your male and female readers and I will write again if so.
Yours sincerely,
Madame A.
This letter from the past makes a perfect introduction to our corset and girdle special issue. The author, an experienced corsetiere, is obviously well versed in the inestimable advantages of petticoat discipline, and understands well the nature of its effect in the case of corsets: the tightening feeling which melts away any disobedience, and instils a feeling of being controlled of which the wearer is constantly aware.
For men who need to be
trained to be more attentive with doing the housework, there is nothing
better than a tight corset or panty girdle, in association with a full
pinafore of course, as I have mentioned many times.
Susan