I really love your site, it is the best on the web.  I am 35 years old, married for five years, and my wife is now 30 years old.  I have always been interested in petticoat discipline and humiliation.  I have slowly introduced my wife to this over time and she has become a willing 'mommy' to me. At first she thought the idea was crazy, but now she enjoys being in charge and being able to do as she wants and have me serve her.  It has been great for me too.

Recently, however, she has introduced something I really don't like.  She has taken to making me go to bed at 7 or 8 pm, and she makes me change into little boy pajamas or a night dress at 6 pm.  She teases me about this, and I hate it.  I wonder if other males are treated this way?  Oh, by the way, my name is Steve, but she has taken to calling me 'Stephanie' lately.
Steve

Of course other husbands are treated like that, and so they should be. It makes a lot more sense than going down to the local. Please give your wife my warmest congratulations, she is doing a very good job, and please tell her to keep popping you into nighties or little girl (rather than boy) pyjamas at 6 o'clock, and making sure you are tucked up in bed nice and early. And of course she can tease you if it is fun for her.

Do you have a teddy bear that you can take to bed with you? 

It's been such a pleasure and a blessing to have found your site. I have found your essays, letters and stories about the benefits of petticoat discipline for men quite informative and enlightening. Until very recently I was just a typical ordinary unevolved male.
Since stumbling onto your site, which led me to several others, I have begun to see the wisdom of petticoat discipline for myself as a male.

I have experimented with some petticoating myself, and found the effect of wearing pretty, feminine little girl’s dresses, with lacy lingerie and high heels, quite powerful. Your time-honored wisdom is quite on target. When I am wearing these things, my
arrogant and conflicting male nature simply melts away, and I find that I become quite sweet and submissive. In this state the only thing I want to do is be a sweet submissive sissy, and relinquish my masculinity in the service of a superior female. I guess this was
part of my nature all along. Perhaps it is the path of evolution for the modern male.

I have a strong desire to explore this most wonderful side of my nature in the presence of a real woman, who would welcome the
opportunity to transform an ordinary male into their perfect sissy servant or maid through strict petticoat discipline. The women who contribute to your site, who are able to guide their male companions to surrender their masculinity to the power of the feminine, are
quite impressive. I know now that I require this to complete myself.

It seems that this sort of thing is much more acceptable in your country. Do you know how I can find a mature woman in southern California who might be interested in petticoating someone like myself? I am an intelligent and open, attractive male in my late 40s.
I may be reached via susan@petticoated.com. Thanks again for showing me the true way.
Danie

Congratulations on having discovered your soft, submissive side, even in middle age. I do get a lot of letters like yours, and I believe that you can find a partner, but you need to explain to her that you are submissive, and would greatly appreciate petticoating as an expression of your love for your partner. Have you read the Christmas Annual? In that edition I tried to give readers help by presenting essays by two women whose husbands were submissive and who appreciated the enthralling ecstasy of petticoat discipline. They were both genuine. I have also written about this matter myself.

I believe this is the approach to take, rather than to look for a dominant woman. One reader had tried that and was successful via an internet group, but success is not common. I have left in your e-mail address, but I think your best approach is to find a partner you can trust and then approach it from there. 

Dear Susan,

Your advice was recommended to me by a close friend of mine, who has some 'interesting' ways of disciplining her son. Straight off, she makes him wear a petticoat with a frilly dress and underwear, all of which was given to her by her mother, who used it to discipline her little brother. Well, our son is age six, and will be seven in August, and has  the tendency to fight with his twin sister, and try to push her around.

My husband and I don't believe in spanking, and we don't have enough money at the moment to afford a petticoat. We have grounded him, had him sit in a corner, even sent him to our pastor for some help, but he seems to keep on being the naughty boy he his. He's very energetic and defiant. Please give me some advice on how to discipline my son.
Relena M.

I would tell him about your friend's son, and say that you will have to buy him a pretty dress and petticoats and sissy knickers if he can't be nice to his twin sister. In fact his sister, I would hope, has some pretty clothes that would fit him. You may need to remind him of this a couple of times, but usually the threat will be enough. he probably does not relise that petticoat punishment really can happen to naughty little boys.

I would like to know where i might be able to find a complete 'Little Lord Fauntleroy' outfit. My wife and I read most of this site last night, and she has, since we have married, kept me under proper domestic control, and I live by her rules.

Her rules include: wearing my sissy clothes at night, and doing my chores, and on the weekends. I have grown to like these clothes, since I can remember my aunt would punish me this way.

If you can help me, we would appreciate it.
Thank you,
Tommy

Thank you Tommy - I am sure that you have a very happy marriage, and what is more you have asked a very interesting question. I do not know, and if any readers to know where a well-sewn Little Lord Fauntleroy suit could be obtained, of soft velvet with a wide lace collar, then please write to me. It would be of interest to a great many readers I am sure.