My blanket answer to all readers who write in asking if I know of 'clubs' of one sort or another, is - NO. There is a passage in Sherlock Holmes where Sherlock describes his brother Mycroft as 'the most unclubbable man in London'. I can assure readers that I represent the distaff side of the same principle.
 

I am twenty two years old, and live at home with my stepmother.  I don't have a job, and therefore she thinks she can tell me what to do.  I don't agree, but when I disobey her she takes me over her lap and spanks my bottom, just as if I was a five year old.  She also makes me wear nappies to bed.

Now she's talking about making me wear a little girl's dress.  Should I accept her regime, or leave to find my own place to stay?
Nappied Rebecca

I am unsure what sex you are, but it sounds to me as if your stepmother would like you to get a job, and then you can make your own decision about whether to leave or not. So perhaps that would be a good start. 

My wife often makes me wear little girl's knickers, and sometimes white lacy tights and a little frilly dress.  I try to resist, but she says I deserve it.  I don't think I do, but what do you think?

I know I'm not the perfect husband, but this seems a step too far.
Lance

If it brings you closer to husbandly perfection, then it is certainly not going too far. Most men seem to need petticoats and frilly dresses in order to attain the perfection of manners, obedience  and docility that their wives desire.

I have been ordered to write to you by the girls at work.They are not happy with me because I am always staring at their legs and bottoms, and they said I will have to ask you what they could do to me as punishment. I had to write, because my female boss has said she will sack me if I don't.
Thank you for your time,
L.

This is an all-too-common problem in work places, and you definitely need plenty of humiliation to bring you under control. I can say as a woman that one of the most annoying aspects of this practice is that even when your back is turned, you always know if some male is ogling you, although exactly how I am unable to say. There seems to be a kind of sixth sense that women have, but which men lack, probably because so many are too wrapped up in themselves. And the really irritating part is that the men always think that they are doing it so subtly that you are unaware of it.

The girls should each bring in at least one pair of their knickers, and you should be made to wear them all at once whilst you are at work. You will be very aware of wearing so many pairs of knickers, they will be very hot and uncomfortable when the warmer weather arrives, and they will serve as a constant reminder not to secretly stare at ladies' bottoms. You could also be made to wear a pair of knickers and tights over your head, which will obscure your vision, and also serve as a constant humiliating reminder to the staff of your transgressions.

The girls could punish you in other ways once a week, but let me know how these suggestions work out first.