CORRESPONDENCE FROM MISTRESS ALISON
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A brief introduction is in order; Mistress Alison is a good friend and a very knowledgeable and experienced Mistress, she has also been a frequent contributor to PDQ. She is now available to answer questions from both Mistress and sissies alike, assuming a respectful tone of course. These email conversations may well be included at some future date in PDQ though a request for privacy would be respected. Feel free to write her at mistress-alison@petticoated.com and please don't waste her valuable time asking "where / how can I find a Mistress?"

Dear Mistress Alison

I have read most of the monthly letters on PDQ yet I am confused.

Why would a husband and wife want to live with the wife in charge rather than both contribute equally?

Why would a wife want her husband to dress like a woman?

Why would a man want to dress like a woman in front of his wife?

I am not being critical in any way just confused why people live that way.

Two years ago my wife talked me into going to a Halloween party dressed as a French maid. It was the weirdest feeling I ever had as she wanted me to wear all women's stuff right down to panties and bra. I went along with it and was the life of the party they say. I just can't imagine why a man would want to dress that way every day. My wife thought it was cute and she thanked me for being a good sport about it all. Since then she has hinted a few times when I was helping clean the house that I might like to put on my France maid outfit again. My answer simply no thanks honey.

I'm writing to you to better understand why women like this so much. If I was willing I feel my wife would like me to do it again or at least more often. She doesn't know I am writing to you otherwise it would appear I am interested. I just want to understand it all better so that if my wife brings it up I can talk to the subject better.

Thanks,
Jake

Dear Jake

Different people have different motivations for what they do and I don't want to make sweeping generalisations, but the most common reason women want their husbands to be dressed as women is that they enjoy the power it gives them, they find it thrilling and erotic, and the most common reason men wished to be dressed this way is they are fetishists seeking an outlet for their submissive nature.

Which brings us to your particular situation. I think that like most men you have a submissive side to your character that you don't wish to admit to. Our still largely patriarchal society teaches boys that they should behave in certain ways, do certain things and that other things are taboo. When they become men the world of work reinforces the stereotype and anyone who acts or even feels differently is made to feel ashamed. This is very slowly changing, but there is still an expectation that men should behave in a certain way and in particular wear certain clothes. While it has become acceptable for women to wear trousers or even suits, the idea of men in dresses is the stuff of pantomime. Most men who experience a desire to wear female clothes feel enormous guilt and suppress it. This is why almost every sex worker offers so called forced femme scenarios where a client is made to dress and can pretend it is against his will, thus he gets to wear the clothes, but is absolved from feeling guilt because it isn't his fault. He is powerless to resist.

You obviously have an interest in wearing, or being made to wear, female clothes. You experienced it once, right down to underwear, at your wife's instigation, and it had a profound and lasting effect on you. Enough for you to research it on the internet, I don't think it was an accident that you chose to delve deeper into the Petticoat Discipline Quarterly website, read most of the letters and then to write to me. You may not be able to imagine a man wanting to dress like every day, but, like looking at some venomous creature safely behind glass, you are fascinated by the idea of it, maybe even thinking "what if? "

You say your wife has hinted at you wearing what she called "your French maid outfit" rather than "the French maid" or "a French maid outfit" which I think is significant. You believe that it is something your wife wants you to do and may well raise the subject again. I agree this is very likely, but why do you think it is so?

I think it is possible that your wife has detected your latent submissiveness tendencies, which you may not even be aware you have, and wants to explore bringing them out. Or she may want to experiment with being the dominant partner in your marriage, possibly even turning it into an FLR. I have no way of knowing. The one thing I do know is that when you tell your wife, "No thanks, honey;" and tell me, "otherwise it would appear I am interested." You're not fooling anybody, except perhaps yourself.

The real question is, what are you going to do about it? Attending that Halloween party let the genie out of the bottle and it isn't going to go back in again. Sooner or later your wife is going to mention it again, and then again, and again. You might be able to put her off, but eventually the two of you are going to have to have a serious discussion about it. Just saying, "No" or refusing to discuss it won't cut the mustard and I think you know that already.

My advice is for you to instigate the discussion, maybe next time you are helping with the housework, that way you can set the agenda and have a degree of control over what is discussed. It is important that both of you hold nothing back and put all your cards on the table. Concealment and deceit are incredibly toxic to any relationship, and while secrets can add an element of mystery to a marriage, lying is one of the quickest ways to wreck one. One of the most important things you should ask is why she has this interest in dressing you as a French maid, and why she thinks it would suit your personality and would work in your marriage. Be prepared to be shocked and hear things you don't like, but don't get angry and don't just gainsay or deny anything she says. Instead ask for examples and evidence of what makes her think she way she does. Above all don't let it degenerate into a row or full scale argument, be prepared to compromise, offer to try things out, even you are convinced they are not for you. If you really don't want to do something you will be in a much stronger position to refuse if you can say, "I tried it, I gave it my best shot and it just isn't for me. Why don't we try something else instead."

I have suspicion that if you can get over the feeling that dressing as a French maid to please your wife is something shameful and dirty, you might find you enjoy it. The idea of doing something naughty, breaking a taboo, being sinful for sex could have an appeal all of its own. You might well be sexually excited by your wife dominating you, possibly just in the bedroom to start with. You might even find it leads to other scenarios you enjoy even more. You might find being spanked by her is an enormous turn on. Rule nothing out, discuss and experiment, keep what works and reject what doesn't.

I hope you find this helpful but do feel free to write again if you think I can be of further help, either to you or your wife, or to you both as a couple.

I wish you well for the future.

Yours sincerely
Mistress Alison

Hi Mistress Alison,

Thank you for taking some time to address my questions and confusion. My wife likes to tease me about my Halloween costume from time to time but lately more so. I asked her why would she want me to wear that costume other than at a party. One thing led to another when I discovered a friend of my wife has a husband maid who does the work of a maid fulltime while she goes off to work. Apparently the husband maid wears a regular maid outfit every day. He kisses his wife good bye every morning while he goes to work in the house. I thought my wife was kidding me, but one thing I do know and that is my wife never tells lies. In most cases she is a straight shooter so when there is something on her mind I hear about it. This situation is different for her while she tries to get me interested. After reading your very detailed and excellent email I talked with my wife about what she wants out of our marriage. She does want to explore an FLR with me and she wants me to think about trying out a maid routine. My wife has a point in that she works long hours where I have lost my job due to Covid. I have skills that will be needed, but not until Covid goes away and we can get back to work.

My wife felt while I am off I could at least try to be her maid for a while. You recommended we table everything so I let my wife know how uncomfortable I would feel dressed as her maid and would she think less of me if I did so. She explained the opposite in that she felt it would show her how much I loved her and that I was willing to explore something new in the relationship. My wife went on to tell me she thought if we started slowly where I would wear the French Maid outfit then she would buy me a couple of maid uniforms so I had something clean to wear each day. My wife said she would show me how to do the work of a maid much like she had always done a little at a time. My wife went on to tell me that she wanted me to at least give an honest effort without complaining for a few weeks then we could try adding something else. She said if I say no then it will be no, but we will never know if it would have been something we liked or disliked. If we both agreed to try it then we could learn together and explore it in more detail. My wife told me she felt I would like to be her maid because I loved her so much and I liked helping her with the housework.

I let my wife know it was very confusing still and that all my life I never thought of wearing women's clothing. My wife said it's not a big deal as many men do it for their wives and enjoy it. Rather than feel embarrassed of confused my wife went to get the French Maid outfit for me to try on again. She took my clothes off while I just stood there wondering how and why to myself. On went the panties and bra then garter and stockings before the French Maid dress went over my head. I put on the high heels as my wife clapped that I was at least willing to try it again. All excited my wife took me to the laundry room to introduce me to the washer and dryer. We talked about the things she wanted me to do for her while she was at work. It all seemed like what she had always done.

My wife sat with me while we looked at maid uniforms online. She asked me if I liked the bra I was wearing because she needed to order me a couple more along with more panties. I didn't really know how to answer about did I like the bra or how did it feel. My wife just took over by looking at me then ordering what she felt I needed. She ordered me another pair of high heels in white. I'm so confused at all of this so excuse my writing and topic changes.

It appears my wife was ready for me to be her maid much more than I thought. Here I was asking questions to you Mistress Alison while my wife talked with a friend whose husband was already her maid. Oh well at least my wife said we can try this for a while which makes me feel somewhat better.

Thank you for your advice although my wife had already decided for me.

I hope I can email you again for tips and help when needed.

Thanks,
Jake

Dear Jake

Nothing you have told me holds any surprises. Your original e mail convinced me your wife wanted to try an FLR and you being a maid was going to a major part of that. Husbands becoming maids for their wives after losing their jobs is much more common than you would think and with the Covid crisis is becoming commoner still.

Of course your wife won't think any less of you for becoming her maid, quite the reverse. Not only will you be helping her with the domestic chores and thereby easing her workload, but by doing something that does not come naturally you are demonstrating in the sincerest possible way how much you love her.

Your wife is obviously excited by the prospect of having you as her maid, so as a minimum you should be pleased for her. She says she wants you to give an honest effort without complaining for a few weeks and I think that is entirely reasonable.

What you need to do now is stop worrying, trust your wife and do as she tells you without argument or complaint, that is the essence of an FLR. I am sure that once you get over the initial strangeness you will find that you actually enjoy it. There's an old saying "A happy wife makes for a happy life," and when you see how much happier your wife is with you helping her in your smart uniform then that happiness will come back to enrich your life.

Feel free to write any time with any questions you may have; in the meantime work hard, be obedient, and don't forget to smile.

Yours sincerely
Mistress Alison

Hi Mistress Alison,

I had no idea how popular husbands turned maids was today. My wife had been telling me more and more while we worked this afternoon on laundry and some cleaning. She told me not to worry about anything while she helped me get more into my new job. My wife gave me some things to do while she went out shopping on her last vacation days. I was surprised to see how much love my wife was showing me for trying out my new thing. She must have kissed and hugged me 5 or 6 times in a few hours. My concern was that she would love me less or laugh at me dressed as her maid. So far I was wrong because she likes it so far anyways. My wife told me later on she wants to have a bath with me and shave me nice and clean like a maid should be. I'm kind of scared to be shaved like a woman. My wife said no worries it will be fun and she won't cut me. This is certainly a weird feeling to have a wife who wants her husband to be her maid and even dress that way. I can't say anything good or bad about it right now other than it just feels weird to me. My wife on the other hand is very excited and accepting.

Thanks for helping me kind of understand this better. It is a good thing there are women out there like you that are willing to help others with this type of lifestyle. I appreciate you talking with me.

Thanks,
Jake

Dear Jake

You're welcome; helping individuals and couples find their true identities and form stable loving relationships, usually based on female dominance is very rewarding in itself.

I expect by the time you read this you will be newly shaven and nicely hairless. Your stockings and panties will feel so much nicer and more softly feminine against smooth hairless skin. Now are going to be depilating don't forget to moisturise regularly, ideally every day to keep your skin in good condition. Moisturising each other all over can be a highly erotic experience, as can waxing those heard to reach areas on your partner.

Don't worry about anything, your wife has obviously thought this through thoroughly and is enjoying the way things are going. She is showing her enjoyment and her appreciation of your compliance by being extra loving towards you. Just keep on doing as she tells you and remember to show your gratitude as well and everything will be fine.

Yours sincerely
Mistress Alison

Hi Mistress Alison,

My wife came home with several bags of clothes including 3 maid uniforms. There was also a pair of high heels, stockings, panties, bras, a slip, a girdle and fake boobs. I was shocked at what she bought in such a short time. Something told me my wife had planned this for a while. We had dinner then spent some time in the bathtub talking and shaving. I thought my wife just wanted to shave my legs but no she shaved all of me from neck to toes. Actually I shaved my legs and armpits while my wife told me how to do it and while she shaved my pubic hairs off. I asked why all the hair had to go but my wife just asked that I go with the flow and not be so concerned about my body hair.

After the bath was over and I cleaned the tub my wife showed me what she bought. She wanted me to try everything on to be sure it fit which I did while she helped. Before long I was standing before her in a maid uniform with a smooth body. My wife told me I looked very pretty and she was thrilled that I was willing to be her maid. I went for a walk in the new high heels to show my wife I could walk in them. It was getting late so my wife helped me take off the maid uniform. As I sat on the bed in my new panties and bra my wife told me to wait there while she went to get something for me. When she returned we talked about a husband being a maid and how important it was for her that I accepted. My wife told me that to help with my training she bought me something that she wanted me to try on for her. She asked me if I would try it on so I thought what else could there be so I said yes.

My wife said I would have to pull my panties down so I did as she asked. Then out of a small bag my wife showed me a pink plastic chastity device. I saw them on other sissymaids before so I knew what it was. My wife told me that the woman at the store said this device was a good starter device. My wife then went ahead with my help to put it on and lock it closed. She gave me a big hug and kiss for co-operating with her all day. My wife felt that I did everything she asked of me which was a good start to our new life together. She also bought me a couple of nighties which she helped me put on one of them. Once again my wife clapped with joy that I let her put a nightie on me. She told me I looked cute and that she was proud of me for letting her feminize me. I asked her if it made her happy and she said more than I could ever know. Then she asked me if I was happy. I said not really happy but a little confused. My wife asked if I will be alright and I said yes I will get used to it as long as it pleases her. With that she told me again it pleased her very much to see me as her maid.

My wife called her friend who has a husband maid to let her know I was also her maid. They talked for a while and I could hear the excitement in my wife's voice. The woman asked to speak to me so I talked with her for a few minutes. She assured me in time I would learn to love life as a maid especially for my wife. She also told me that my wife was a very fair woman and that if I obeyed her like I should it will make her extremely happy with me. If I don't obey my wife I will be punished which my wife never mentioned. It was time for bed so while my wife took a bath I wrote out this email. I asked her if she wanted help in the bath but she said not tonight.

Well Mistress Alison it looks like I am now a maid for my wife. I am not sure exactly what that all means but I'm sure she will tell me as time goes on.

Thank you again for the support. Your words and wisdom meant a lot to me today.

Jake

Dear Jake

If you have been reading the letters in PDQ then you knew that being locked in chastity was the next step for you. Of course you did. I didn't mention it because I didn't want to spook you, but it is an essential part of any serious FLR and an absolute requirement for all sissymaids. But it has now happened and as the lady to whom you spoke told you will soon get used to it. My own sissymaid, kitty, who has been locked in chastity almost since puberty describes it thus: "I have come to see it for the truly wonderful thing it is. My Mistress is keeping something very precious and irreplaceable safely under lock and key until she needs it, just like she would a piece of valuable jewellery, which is only taken out on special occasions. In time, like me, you will find it comforting to know that you are protected from temptation, and the permanent presence of the chastity device in your frilly panties will serve as a constant reminder of the power of your Mistress and your devotion to her."

I think you also know that the next steps for you will be a wig and make up, the selection of a femme maid name for you and, most important of all, learning how to curtsy. I know it seems an awful lot to learn in a very short time but with your wife's help it will actually be a great deal easier than it sounds and you will come to enjoy serving your wife as her maid and you will want to look pretty and feminine for her and above all else you will want to please her and make her happy.

Don't concern yourself with what this lady told you about punishment because if you are a good girl and obey your wife then it won't happen and you have already told her that although you are currently more confused than happy you "will get used to it as long as it pleases her." The opposite side of punishment is of course reward, and you have already seen how your rewards you when you are good and obedient, hugs and kisses and affection. Do as you're told, work hard and always put your wife first and you will come to see being a maid for the truly wonderful thing it is. Exciting times and true joy lie ahead for both of you.

Yours sincerely
Mistress Alison

Hi Mistress Alison,

I did read PDQ in regards to chastity devices on sissymaids but never thought that would happen to me. My wife and I have been together for so many years that I thought I knew everything about how she thinks. I am now learning maybe not as much as I thought. Now that I wear the device my wife told me to get used to it as though it was normal to wear that jewellery on your penis everyday. My wife is a very soft spoken woman so when she told me the device was for my training she said so in a very soft voice. At times it was hard to know when my wife was serious or angry with her soft voice. She is also very convincing using the same voice to talk me into things she wanted me to do. How could I ever say no to her? Well, I never really did say no.

My wife did mention me wearing a wig so that any neighbours who see me through the windows won't pay much attention to a maid working. My wife did not mention any kind of makeup though. What she did tell me is wanting to take this slowly so that I learn how to do things the right way. My wife told me that she wanted me to try working as her maid but now that I am, she would like me to become her fulltime maid. I spoke up as it wasn't what we agreed to do and my wife said yes that was true but now that she has seen how pretty I look it is something we must continue. It made me sad to hear my wife wants me to live as her fulltime maid.

This morning when I served my wife breakfast she was full of compliments. It made me feel guilty for not wanting to do this fulltime. My wife has a natural way of getting me to do anything and everything. She never talks about it, but I am aware of it.

Thank you for pointing out not listening so much to my wife's friend on punishments. My wife is not really that type of woman as she prefers to talk me into things with her soft convincing voice. Friends of mine have always commented on how sexy my wife's voice is but when I told them that is how she gets me to do everything they thought otherwise. In their cases the wives would yell at them if they didn't do something. In my case my wife would just talk softly to me then I would do what she wanted without yelling or arguing. My wife should have been a hypnotist as she has that type of voice. Some wives say things like get moving on cleaning the garage or pick up tools and clean this place up. My wife would say Jake would you clean the garage for me today please or you have quite the mess in here and I hope you clean it up for me.

My wife talked the same way when she wanted me to try on my new maid uniform last night. It was let's try this pretty uniform on Jake, followed by I really like you in this uniform, very pretty. I know my wife may not be a typical Mistress by the way she talks to me yet she gets the results in her own way. She doesn't order me around yet I do everything she wants me to do.

I have things to do today and some training later on with my wife. The good thing for me is my wife likes to go for a walk every morning so I have time to myself. That said she will expect I am working on something when she comes back.

Oh I am to think of a name today so next time I write it won't be Jake.

Thank you,
Jake

Dear Jake

Your wife is obviously a formidable women, who knows exactly how to get her own way, make you do exactly as she wants and make you feel good about doing it. She is a Mistress in all but name, she doesn't raise her voice or be overtly aggressive because she doesn't need to. It's like the old joke about diplomacy – the art of telling people to go to hell in such a way that they look forward to the journey.

I think it was always a strong possibility that once you started working as a maid your wife, let's call her your Mistress, would be reluctant ever to let you go back to what you were. Her choice of the words "we must continue" is highly significant, not "I want" or "I think we should" or even "I'd like you to," but "we must." She may be taking things slowly so you learn to get things right, but she also doing it so each stage is just another small step that you can handle. She obviously has a very clear idea of what she wants you to become and that is what is going to happen because as you have told me, how could you ever say no to her? And in fact you never really have. As I have written before having power is erotic and it is addictive, and once a woman has experienced the real power of being able to make a man do anything she wishes with a snap of her fingers she is isn't going to relinquish it lightly.

Hopefully, the previous paragraph excited you rather than frightened you. Don't be sad, be happy that you're doing something that is going to make your wife / Mistress very happy. The sexy voiced woman who could always wrap you round her little finger is going to do it full time from now on and we both know that even if you wanted to you will be unable to resist her.

As I keep telling you, don't worry, do exactly what your wife / Mistress wants, be obedient and industrious and everything will work out. The two of you are about to embark on a wonderful journey of discovery together, and it will take you to heights you never knew existed and bring you real and lasting joy. A year hence you will be wondering why you were ever so reluctant and your only regret will be you didn't do it from the first day of your marriage.

I look forward to learning your new name. Your wife / Mistress was very generous in letting you choose one for yourself.

Yours sincerely
Mistress Alison

Hi Mistress Alison,

My wife although soft spoken is a very smart woman who knows what she wants in life. My wife has never had any troubles going after goals in the workplace either. I did get the message when my wife used the words "must continue".

The first day of anything is not always easy so my first day as a maid wasn't either. My wife was pleased with my attempt while she gave me some feedback for tomorrow.

Mistress bought me a wig to wear while she was shopping today. Funny you mentioned wig and now I have one. Did my Mistress talk to you?..........just kidding.

Tonight Mistress worked on a document to outline my new role and duties. She won't show it to me until tomorrow when it will be finished. I heard of contracts before so Mistress must be creating something along those lines. I will do what she wants me to do without any contract but if it makes her feel better then I will sign it for her.

Finally, the name I have chosen is Lilly who was an aunt of mine that passed away when I was younger. Mistress confirmed me using that name right away. v Mistress Alison, do you like being a Mistress? Do you think my wife will like it too? I want her to be happy with the decision for me to be her maid and not regret it.

Thank you,
Lilly

Dear Lilly

What an excellent name you have chosen. Unmistakably feminine, short, unfussy, it is ideal for a maid.

I didn't need to communicate with your Mistress, she and you are following a very familiar and predictable pattern that I've seen many times before. The fact you are now using the word Mistress to describe your wife is also a sign that another milepost has been passed, as is her drawing up a contract for you to sign. Of course you would willingly serve her and obey her without one, but should at any time in the future you question whether something she has decided is what you need or want she will be able to produce the contract and point to your signature. You can bet your bottom dollar that somewhere in the contract it will say, "Mistress's decision is final and binding in all cases and at all times," or the near equivalent.

If I didn't enjoy being a Mistress then I wouldn't do it. However, I wasn't a natural dominant and only became a Mistress after meeting kitty, who desperately wanted me to become her Mistress. Fortunately I had good mentors, one of whom was Auntie Helga, and once I got over my initial reluctance I never looked back and could never countenance any kind of vanilla relationship now. As I told you before exercising power is erotic and addictive. This makes me 100% certain that your wife will enjoy the change to become your Mistress. I'm sure it was what she planned all along, maybe even before that fateful Halloween party and certainly when you agreed to "experiment" with dressing as a maid. She knew then that she'd hooked you and all she had to do was reel you in carefully.

I also think you are going to be happy serving as her maid; making her happy, enhancing her life, and cherishing her. Remember what I wrote in my reply to your first e mail about most men having a submissive side to their nature that they keep hidden, well you obviously have such a trait and your wife has decided to bring it into the open and exploit it to her advantage. I think she was probably aware of it from an early stage in your relationship. You met, fell in love with, and then married a woman whom you describe as knowing what she wants in life and has no trouble going after her goals, who never had any trouble getting you to do exactly what she wanted, simply by asking you in her soft sexy voice. In the coming weeks and months you are going to see more and more of the very qualities that attracted you to her in the first place.

As I keep telling you, all you need to do for both of you be happy is to be obedient, industrious and always put your wife first. I always tell new sissymaids to remember the acronym ODD, standing for Obedience, Dress, Demeanour, get those three right and everything else will follow naturally and neither of you will ever regret your decision.

Yours sincerely
Mistress Alison

Hi Mistress Alison,

I'm glad you like my new name Lilly. Mistress has called me a few times since changing my name which I have already gotten used to hearing. Mistress has been helping me with my duties just to be sure I know what is expected. She has also been passing me compliments how pretty I look in my maid uniforms and how much she approves of me wearing them. It's nice to hear that Mistress is pleased with me in this new life she has chosen for me. To be honest I'm not sure Mistress wanted this life for me that long ago. The reason I say this is because I noticed after she began talking about her friend who also has a sissymaid husband the hints began for me to try on my French maid uniform again. To me it made no sense since Halloween has long passed. To me it was maybe 8 months ago that this all started.

Now to your point maybe Mistress planned this a long time ago but wasn't sure how to get it started. It doesn't matter now as I am her sissymaid as she wanted me to be. I like what I am learning so far and I actually like wearing my maid uniforms. Mistress let me know I have some work to do before I can totally look like a female maid but she agreed to help me get there.

Wearing a wig is a different type of feeling more like a hat that has elastic to keep it in place. Also wearing a bra feels a little funny with the weight of the fake boobs in it. Mistress laughs at my descriptions of how I explain things, but she keeps letting me know it's all good and I am doing great. I want Mistress to be proud of the decision she made for me. Like she explained to me this is all new to both of us and we will work together to make it work like other have done. Mistress also let me know so many husbands are becoming maids these days as the world shifts to be more of a woman's world than a man's. She gave me examples of women in politics, in the workplace and the number of women who work fulltime today. Mistress feels the world will be a better place as women take the lead. Mistress told me I am lucky to take my place at this point in time because the future for men will be quite different than they have been used to. It all made sense to me. Mistress is a very smart woman and I love her dearly.

I asked Mistress if she would think less of me dressed as a woman and in time wearing makeup like she does every day. Mistress not at all as she sees nothing out of the ordinary for me to look more feminine. I was glad to hear she would not think less of me.

Thank you,
Lilly

Dear Lilly

Your e mail contained so many telling phrases: "It's nice to hear that Mistress is pleased with me," "It doesn't matter now as I am her sissymaid as she wanted me to be." "I actually like wearing my maid uniforms," "I want Mistress to be proud of the decision she made for me." "It all made sense to me. Mistress is a very smart woman and I love her dearly." They just confirm that your submissive or feminine side was always there lurking beneath the surface and all it needed was for your Mistress to take control and bring it out. You enjoy receiving compliments about how pretty you look and want to look more convincingly female. I rest my case.

I agree totally with your Mistress that the world would be a far more harmonious place if women were to run things and keep men where they belong, firmly under female control. Don't get me wrong I don't hate or despise men, quite the contrary, but like children they need firm discipline in their lives to enable them to flourish and do their best, left to their own devices they tend to squabble and fight among themselves resulting in mayhem. I also think you are so lucky because you have a loving female authority figure to take you in hand and control your life from now on. Her choice of words indicates that she is already flexing her Mistress muscles and being more assertive will come naturally to her. Like me your Mistress actually thinks more of you because you are prepared to submit willingly to female authority, accept her natural superiority and try to emulate her in appearance and behaviour rather than pursue your own selfish ends. Be grateful you now have this wonderful opportunity not only to serve your Mistress in an appropriate manner but also to become a better person in the process,

Yours sincerely
Mistress Alison

Hi Mistress Alison,

I wanted to let you know that my Mistress so far is happy with the exchange or power in our home. She treats me well with me taking on my maid role however she shows me who is in charge. I have been working to keep her happy by taking on more and more. This week was more time spent in the kitchen for me to learn to cook her favourites. Mistress has been teaching me how to be a good maid or at least the maid she demands. Sometimes it's hard to think of my wife as my Mistress or even address her as such. She has been pretty good at reminding me with a firm voice so I get it. We both knew this wasn't going to happen over night and mistakes would happen. Mistress told me as long as she continues to see me getting better it will keep her happy but if I get lazy or backtalk her at anytime a quick punishment will happen. Mistress had her sister and mother come over to meet the new maid this week without much notice to me. I was caught off guard when they arrived yet within a few minutes I just went about my work. I served them drinks so they could see me in action and so Mistress could show me off to them. I knew at some point someone would show up like a neighbour or family member. It just happened sooner rather than later. Mistress also pierced my ears this week so in a few weeks I can wear the earrings she bought for me.

Mistress Alison did it take your sissymaid long before she got used to wearing women's clothing and looking like a woman? It all feels somewhat strange to me at times where other times I like it.

Thank you,
Lilly

Dear Lilly

Things are obviously going very well in your household as your wife steadily gains confidence in her role of your Mistress. She has even reminded you that laziness or disrespect will result in rapid condign punishment, as indeed it should. So you know what you have to do.

She has even shown you off to the female members of her family so she is obviously satisfied with your appearance, demeanour, and competence as a maid and you should feel proud of your achievement. How did they react to seeing you as a maid? Did your Mistress tell them in advance what to expect or was it a total surprise for them. Now you have your ears pierce you can another step to looking even more feminine for your Mistress. Be careful not to catch your earrings in your wig or in your work, studs or short pendants are the most practical for a working maid, though they be exchanged for something more elaborate on special occasions.

Kitty was already used to wearing the clothes she preferred when I met her and it was me that took time to adjust to the idea of becoming her Mistress. All change feels strange at first so don't worry, a year hence being a sissymaid for your Mistress will seem perfectly natural, and you will enjoy looking not just feminine but pretty for her.

Yours sincerely
Mistress Alison

Hi Mistress Alison,

I'm getting used to working away as Mistress's maid these days. It was hard at first just to get used to working all day cleaning and other household tasks. Mistress must have told the other women about me but I didn't ask so not sure. They all treated me just like before only gave me a few more orders instead of asking. I did catch one of my earrings on my wig without knowing it. It hurt like you know what when I took the wig off that night. I'm much more careful now. This maid has much to learn.

Oh so kitty was already trained as well or just with clothing? How long did it take you to be a proper Mistress? I do think my Mistress was born to be this way. She just needed a reason to let it out. I must have been born to be submissive to her too. I do hope you and kitty are well during this time of Covid.

Have a lovely day.

Thank you,
Lilly

Dear Lilly

That is good news that you both trying hard and learning on the job so to speak.

I think that you are probably a natural like kitty and your wife detected your submissive nature and decided to take advantage of it. At what point this happened I can't really speculate, it's possible she doesn't even know herself, but you can both be grateful that she has and you've found your true role in life.

Be obedient, industrious, conscientious and don't forget to smile to let your Mistress know how happy you are to be in her service.

Yours sincerely
Mistress Alison


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