CONCERNED ABOUT PETTICOATING - CONCLUSION
Dear Auntie Helga,
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(In response to my advice and suggestions Tom discussed with his wife about his son's petticoating and the result of that conversation I'm sure you will appreciate.)
Well, I did it. Last night, after the kids went to be, I worked up the nerve to have a talk with Val.
Even before I said anything, she told me that if I was planning to complain again about her feminization of Jaime that she didn't want to hear what I had to say. I immediately assured her that was not what I had to say, that on the contrary, I wanted to apologize abjectly and fully for ever having questioned her authority or her decisions about Jaime. In fact, I guess you could say that I begged for her forgiveness and promised never to do anything like that again. She told me that it was fortunate for our relationship that I had decided to apologize and to acknowledge her authority in this way, because she had been angrier with me that I probably realized for having disagreed with her on those different occasions regarding her feminization of Jaime.
But she also belittled me, telling me that we both knew what a pathetically weak man I am, saying that we both knew there was never any chance that I would be able to really change her mind about feminizing Jaime, and then she laughed while saying that the best thing I could do for Jaime would be to be supportive of his transition into living as a girl. All I could say in response was "yes dear".
We then talked about what would happen when Jaime returned to school, and I made clear that I understood that he would be returning as a girl rather than as a boy. Val's response to that was "Well, of course", and then she said she had already taken care of that problem. Val is friends with the woman who is principal of the school, and the two of them had apparently recently talked about Jaime and the principal said that having Jaime return as a girl would not be a problem at all, and that in fact, there was at least one other boy at the school who would be returning as a girl, and the principal knew of a third boy who was being feminized during the pandemic and might be returning as a girl as well.
I wasn't sure how to broach your idea with Val that it might help Jaime if I were to begin wearing panties and dresses too, but then it turned out I didn't have to. After discussing the school situation, and in as polite and respectful a manner as possible, I did ask Val why it was that she had decided to feminize Jaime. I didn't mean the question to be confrontational in the least, but Val was not pleased by it, to say the least. She said, quite angrily, that she had already made it clear to me that I was not to question her authority in any way, and that it was none of my business why she made the decisions that she made.
Her anger actually frightened me, and given my lack of sleep and the fragile emotional state I was in already, I'm afraid I lost control and started weeping and apologizing and begging again for forgiveness as I literally fell to the floor at her feet. As I started to recover my composure, Val told me I was a pathetic excuse for a man, and that I no longer deserved to have the privilege of dressing completely like a man, and then she told me to go upstairs and to put on a pair of her panties. As I stood up, she continued by saying that she would be ordering panties for me and that from then on, I would wear panties at all times and that she would decide later whether to feminize me the way that she did Jaime, and she made it clear that if that was what she decided to do, that was what would happen.
And so, as I'm writing this, I'm doing so while wearing a pair of Val's panties and I'm quite anxious about what the next few weeks might bring. But I do know that I will have to be exceptionally compliant and obedient to try to avoid another one of Val's outbursts of anger.
Thank you for continuing to keep me informed of your situation and I am pleased to hear how well you followed my advice. You are very fortunate to have such strong confident wife and by showing her the respect and obedience she rightly deserves I can see a wonderful and special family being developed as you and your son learn to serve the two special women that control your lives.