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I think your treatment of Sissy Missy is wonderful. I also am a sissy and wish my wife would treat me the very same way. I have just purchased some new high heeled boots and wish I had the nerve to go shopping in them. Donna Sash a scarf sissy It has been quite some time since I have checked your site or contacted you. Carla's letter and request had me smiling and I figured she could use a mans' perspective. First, while she mentioned the ages of the ones who helped with spanking 'Sissy Missy', there was no mention of either Carla or Missy's ages. While it may not matter much, age differences can play a factor in how much humiliation is involved. I am in my early 40's and am regularly dressed and seen by woman of the same age as Meghan and Amber, with some even younger. The bigger the age difference, whether younger or older, seems to increase the humiliation factor. For a woman old enough to be my mother or grandmother, or one young enough to be my daughter is quite shameful, especially if they themselves feel the need to 'discipline' my bared hiney. College-age woman such as Amber and Meghan do get quite a thrill out of doing this, giggling the entire time. However, NO pictures are ever taken - that is 'out of bounds'. Since Carla DID manage to keep the spanking as "private" as possible, my hat goes off to her. Also, let her know that a hairbrush to a hiney attired in sheer-to-waist pantyhose stings to high heaven! I know from personal experience! While Sissy Missy may think it was going to far, that is the point - to make him realize just how much control women can and do have over him. So, for Carla and her female friends, as long as the humiliation is done in a humane fashion, go for it! I personally am humiliated in other ways, but realize my place at the time it is being done. So, Sissy Missy, get over it! Love Always, David (aka Sister Alan) I think sissy deserved what he got. As a sissy who endures public humiliation at the hands of my dear WIFE I approve of sissy's treatment. As a little side note I have had to shoe shop for myself on many an occasion and had to suffer the humiliation of having my own feminine foot measured and the experience of trying on pumps and walking around the shoe department while my WIFE and a shoe clerk made comments. Jan If Carla is training Sissy to be female (feminine?), then why is she letting him appear in public in male clothing? If Sissy were properly clothed in a dress, or even a skirt and blouse, there would be no question that the stockings and high heels would show. Rather the calves and polished toes they encase would be shown off to advantage. It sounds as if Carla were more interested in administering a sound spanking than making her Sissy comfortable with presenting a pleasing appearance. Public battery is bound to draw attention and official intervention, putting an end to her delight in public spectacle, blanket or no blanket. It would be far more effective if Carla and her friends would transform Sissy for weekend service, hair, nails, makeup, as well as flattering dress. Submissive, yes; obligingly domestic, yes; extending personal maid services to Carla and her friends, definitely yes, as her skills permit. Sissy should be made proud to be an attractive adornment for Carla's arm, to acknowledge she belongs to Carla whenever Carla finds it convenient to reveal Sissy's status, rather than fearful of being shamefully exposed. When Carla has succeeded in her task, Sissy (Ugh! She should answer to apropros romantic names, not a garbled version of "Sister.") will want to walk confidently in public, visiting her hair salon, as she does her shoppping, or displayed out on the town, in high heels and high hair, earrings brushing her neck, necklaces and bracelets adorning her in symbolic bondage, scent wafting softly behind her, proud to answer softly to all advances, "I'm taken." Sydney Michelle I always reinforce disobedience with a spanking but to ensure that Sarahslut will obey in future, I increase his humiliation. In the circumstances that Carla describes, at the first refusal, I would have put lipstick on him, there and then, before sending him on his errand. With the promise that any further disobedience would be punished with him being required to wear a dress and six inch heels when out at the mall. Obedience guaranteed. Good luck Carla. Oh and frustrate him for a month as well, by way of further punishment. They become ever so compliant when denied orgasm. As an avid reader of the site, and extremely sad to hear about Susan, I think I need to support you and keep the site and her memory going. I enjoy wearing petticoats, bra's, panties and anything else I can get hold but unfortunately do not have anyone to insist I do so. I would like to contribute however and you have given me the opportunity. Therefore I need to stand up for Carla. For her boyfriend to truly experience the joy of being feminised and giving up control he needs to give up most (if not all) rights. Carla seems a very perceptive person. I am particularly impressed with the way she parked at the back of the car park and had a blanket ready in case minors appeared. Though she determined to do the job properly she shows she is completely responsible for what she is doing and extremely considerate to others. I think she should continue, in this instance unimpaired, to meet her goal. However, from her boyfriends point of view, he should be allowed to complain if it is taking him too far - I expect this time it probably was!. However Carla has been sensible and asked others for their opinions and if her boyfriend is found to be wrong he needs to be punished for it. This will be hard for him but will totally show him who is in control. As I agree with Carla's position entirely, I feel she should be able to administer a suitable punishment for her boyfriend. My suggestion would be tp parade him in front of the the two girls' boyfriends as an example of what could happen to them. Ultimately though it is Carla's choice. I enjoy the website immensly and please keep up the good work. There will no better remberance for Susan than to keep it going on, Regards and thanks, Tricia Hi, all my Sisters in Discipline! My name is Carla and my live in boyfriend's name is Sissy Missy. My girlfriends and myself have been training him to become a female. I want to solicit your feedback on a form of Panty Discipline I use on him. Of course, Sissy does all of the housework for myself and my 3 girlfriends. We prefer to keep Sissy in just Bra, Panties, Nylons (Either Pantyhose, Girdle, or my favorite, Garter belt and Nylons). and, of course, high heel pumps. Sissy also must do all the shopping for me whether it be mall or grocery. I allow Sissy to wear his shirt and jeans when he does my shopping and she has her bra, panties, garter and nylons underneath. But I insist that whenever she wears her nylons she MUST wear her high heel pumps. Sissy doesn't want to wear her heels when shopping because she feels they show below her jeans cuffs. But the rules are the rules! I was suspicious that Sissy wasn't wearing his heels when shopping. So, I started doing some random spot checks. When I caught him shopping without his heels I would drag him into a corner of the mall and shoe him like a horse in his pumps. But the next time I checked he wasn't wearing his pumps again. It was clear that shodding him with pumps right at the mall wasn't getting the point across. So the next time I caught him without his heels, I dragged him out into the parking lot. I had parked at the very back. I then bent him over the trunk and pulled his jeans down exposing his garters, nylons, high heels and his finely pantied ass. Sissy is only allowed to wear 100% sheer panties. I then gave my hand and his bottom a workout. I am very careful to not let any minors see his state of undress as I have a blanket at the ready should the wrong person(s) walk by. The first time I did this to her, this didn't work either. The next time I dragged him out to the parking lot I "Pantsed" him as usual. But this time I waited until a couple of late teen or twenty something females passed by. I invited them to approach and explained that Sissy needed his bottom spanked because he refused to wear his pumps while shopping. As he was bent over the trunk only his sheer pantied bottom was exposed. I told the two gals, Amber and Megan, to think of Sissy as that male domineering boss that they always dreamed of catching in a compromising situation like this. Without batting an eyelash they put down their bags and proceeded to lend me a "Helping Hand(s)". They really got into it exchanging smarting bare hand slaps on his sheer cheeks until Sissy finally started the tears streaming. Amber then asked if I wouldn't mind using her picture phone to snap a remembrance of this experience to show their boyfriends and plant some "Seeds" in their minds! I gladly complied and we took several snapshots of Amber spanking Sissy and then Megan spanking him and finally the two of them planting a really cute kiss on either sided of his sheer pantied crimson red bottom cheeks. They thanked me for the wonderful time and swore they would have their boyfriends in panties before the week was out! Now here is what I need all of your help with? Sissy feels showing him off in this way goes too far! I feel I have advanced our "Sisterthood of Discipline" further by introducing two new women to the importance of female dominance. If we can further our cause one or two women at a time then eventually all men will be taught that men, not women, are the true "Weaker Sex"! And as a nice sidelight, Sissy, now has been completely trained to always wear his pumps when he does my shopping! That one incident did the trick! So, I invite your feedback all my sisters and need to know was Sissy's public humiliation too much or just what the Doctor ordered? I look forward to your feedback! Love, Carla Thanks to all for telling us what you think of Carla's treatment of Sissy Missy. Auntie Helga |