Dear Helga,

I was delighted with Agatha's very informative and accurate paper on panty girdles (March 2009). From experience, I can tell you that this is a person with first hand experience. I am a co-pastor of a large congregation. Years ago I was called before a panel of bishops and after an admittedly fair hearing, I received what I consider an unfair admonition. I was not to share my "insights" any longer. I was excused to practice my aberration within the confines of my own marriage, but not teach it to others.

Now I wish to ask Agatha to please post her discovery wherever she can. I promised not to. My experience may predate hers, but is surprisingly similar. From our wedding I considered my husband's approach to sex lacking. He was not seeing the spiritual component. So, I asked him to wear a panty girdle, at first, to bed, but then constantly. I did the same as did Agatha, with his phallus, and he indeed learned to love it. But when I released him, he was less than satisfied and when I asked him if he would rather have this be a permanent arrangement, he agreed. Yes, the testes were pressed up into his body, and after a short while, they stayed there. There was a little discomfort at first, but it led him to a more spiritual feeling and obedience.

Another thing happened. He lost the feeling in his phallus. I'm not certain of the cause, but he remains tumid but insensate. This allows him to fulfill his husbandly duties as I see them, while keeping his mind on communion and service in a dignified and pure manner. On Sunday morning, before I robe for the pulpit, I milk his prostate. I use a rubber glove and this entails a small "ritual" private between it. He thanks me and bestows intimate kisses.

He then assists me in dressing and I dress him, hoisting the girdle chastely tight from the back. He beams with happiness, health and divine approval. I ascend the pulpit and am happy to see several couples whom I had shared my thoughts before it was banned. They carry on, converting family and friends. And by the way. Shortly after the Bishops told me to stop, one of the very Bishop's wives visited me and told me that her purple shirt was now in a snug panty girdle and was a more obedient husband and a much more religious and less political man.

Pastor Ann

Thank you for your letter Pastor Ann. A girdle can be both controlling for the body and the mind as well, another very good tool to use for their proper training, not utilized enough these days in my opinion.

Helga